Cave Haven: Restore US
The Deep Dive Intimacy Reset
You’re not crazy. And you’re not the only one.
Thousands of couples are smiling in public but aching in private. You love them, no matter how kind and patient you are, your words don’t land. Your needs feel ignored.
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It's not that you fell out of love... It's that you've forgotten how to feel safe in it
If your relationship feels like you’re quietly drifting apart…
If the silence between you is louder than the arguments ever were…
If you’re holding it together on the outside but feeling more like roommates than lovers…
You are not alone, and this is not how it has to end.
Restoring Us: Rekindle Love, Heal Together, and Get Closer Again is a 6-week live online group coaching program designed to help couples
rebuild emotional intimacy
reconnect physically
restore safety and closeness in their relationship.
No shame. No spotlight. Just real work, done together — in a space where love can breathe again.
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🌹We're Ty and Kara Barlow
We’re Ty and Kara Barlow—partners in healing, soul work, and real-life love.
Our story began like many modern ones do: with a swipe on a dating app. What followed was anything but ordinary. Together, we blended seven children and two grandchildren into one big, beautifully imperfect family. But before we could fully merge our lives, we had to do the work—the deep healing work—to unearth, unravel, and rebuild from our own relational traumas.
After a year of inner alchemy, courageous communication, and spiritual restoration, we eloped to Barbados—just the two of us—where we got married barefoot on the beach with rose petals beneath our feet.
Kara is a certified life coach and fantasy fiction author with a gift for helping women reclaim their voice, vision, and purpose. Ty is a licensed clinical mental health counselor, author, and musician who specializes in trauma recovery, nervous system healing, and emotional regulation.
Together, we are devoted to helping individuals and couples heal their nervous systems, restore their souls, and build relationships—and lives—rooted in peace, authenticity, and joy.
We believe healing doesn’t have to be heavy forever.
That love can be safe.
And that your story isn't over—it’s just beginning.
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Our love is safe, intimate, fun, and forever.
Each Week, You’ll Focus on One Deep Layer of Love Repair
You could go to therapy for years and never touch this kind of breakthrough.
Or…
You could spend 6 weeks doing the deepest, most transformational work of your life — together.
What You Get
Here's exactly what you'll recieve when you join:
Week 1- Making Love a Priority
You’ll rediscover how to truly show up for each other — and start feeling chosen again.
Week 2- Building Respect
Learn how to rebuild trust and honor — even if it’s been quietly broken for years.
Week 3- Holding Space
You’ll finally feel heard, seen, and safe — not judged or “fixed.”
Week 4- Love in Action
You’ll stop keeping score and start loving each other through joyful service again.
Week 5- Being Fully Seen
You’ll reconnect on an emotional level that goes beyond words — to the place where intimacy begins.
Week 6- Healing through Touch
You’ll rekindle physical connection and warmth — even if it’s been cold for a long time.
You Could Stay Stuck In This Pattern For Years… Or You Could Change Everything In Just Six Weeks.
One weekend away won’t fix this.
One book won’t get you seen.
One apology won’t rebuild what’s been broken.
But six weeks of guided, heart-centered work?
That could change everything.
Let this be your reset.
“We were sleeping in separate rooms. We barely spoke unless it was about bills or the kids. I honestly thought we were done — just going through the motions until someone said 'I'm out.' But Restoring Us changed everything. It gave us space to feel, tools to reconnect, and the courage to be vulnerable again. For the first time in years, I feel like we’re in love — not just living together.”
Lena & Marcus T.
★★★★★
“We had tried counseling. We’d read all the books. But nothing ever really stuck. This was different. The structure, the emotional safety, the way each session built on the last — it helped us see each other again. Really see each other. I’ll never forget the night we held hands after Week 3 and cried — not because we were hurt, but because we felt close again.”
J & Riley
★★★★★
“We weren’t broken… we were just disconnected. Tired. This program met us there — without judgment. The group space felt safe, Ty and Kara were warm but real, and the exercises brought things up we hadn’t talked about in years. I went in feeling hopeless. I came out believing in us again.”
Sean P.
★★★★★
FAQs
❓I’m not in a relationship right now. Can I still join?
Yes — and we’ve had individuals do just that with powerful results. If you’re healing from a breakup, navigating divorce, or preparing for a future relationship, this program can help you do the deep inner work that leads to real love. You’ll walk away with clarity, emotional tools, and a stronger connection to yourself — which is where healthy relationships begin.
❓Do we have to be in a good place to join this?
Not at all. This program is designed for couples who feel distant, stuck, or even on the edge — as long as both partners are open to showing up and doing the work. Whether you’ve grown apart or just need to reconnect emotionally and physically, this program will meet you where you are and guide you forward.
❓We’ve tried therapy and it didn’t work. How is this different?
Great question. Traditional therapy often focuses on processing and talking. Restoring Us is experiential — it helps you actually feel and practice new patterns in real time. Each session includes tools, emotional connection exercises, guided reflection, and real-world action steps. It’s not passive learning — it’s active healing.
❓Is this group therapy? Will we have to share personal stuff with others?
No one is ever forced to share anything personal. This is a guided coaching experience, not open group therapy. While some couples choose to share, you are never put on the spot. Most couples say just hearing others be honest helped them feel less alone and more supported.
❓What if my partner isn’t sure about doing this?
That’s completely normal. Share this page with them and invite an honest conversation. Let them know there’s no judgment, no pressure, and no awkwardness. Just real support in a safe, guided space. Many hesitant partners end up deeply grateful they said yes.
❓What if we can’t make a session live?
No problem. Every session is recorded and available for replay in a private members-only portal. While showing up live creates the most connection, you can absolutely watch the replay together and still receive full benefit from the session content and homework.
❓What’s your refund policy?
We offer a 10-Day Money-Back Guarantee — no questions asked. If you join and don’t feel like the program is helping you reconnect, heal, or move forward in a meaningful way, just let us know within 10 days of your purchase. We’ll refund every dollar. No guilt. No hassle. We only want you in the room if it’s truly helping you grow.
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